Love Yourself More

So many people have resolutions each year and so many let them go after February. Instead of the common resolutions of losing weight, getting organized, paying down debt, saving money, taking a trip, why not devote your year to loving on YOU!!

All of those things will fall into place when you start taking time for you and loving yourself.<3

Smile more
Laugh more
Eat cleaner
Invest in yourself
Think positive
Exercise for you!
You Are Worth It!

Taking care and loving yourself is the best thing one can do. It changes your whole perspective, makes you feel better and makes you happier!



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The Day Has Come!

Well the day has come :) As of today I am a Full Time Beachbody Coach AND Stay at Home Mom!!

Last year was a whirlwind of change and why would this year be any different!

Oh my gosh it is scarey but this is where my heart is and it IS where I belong.  When I left my job in Toronto to come home I took on 2 other jobs from home as well. It was hard to find the time to be with the girls as I was on the computer from morning til night trying to keep up with the workloads.

2 weeks ago we decided that I would leave my Mortgage business for now and just focus on my other job, the girls and Beachbody until October when we would re-evaluate the situation. Well the universe had other plans. I believe everything happens for a reason and this, I believe wholeheartedly is a blessing for us!

The past couple of weeks have been one of the best! I was able to let the stresses of my previous job slowly float away. I was able to spend sooo much time with my girls! We went to the trailer, spent time with family, went to Legoland, the zoo and we danced ❤❤

I really want to thank my family and friends for all of their support!

Mom, Dad and Glen you are my biggest fans and love you to pieces for telling me to always follow my dreams ❤

And a very special thank you to my husband for always pushing me further and believing in me that I CAN do this! You are my biggest supporter and I am so happy you came into my life xoxo

My Life Will NEVER Be The Same!

Alright I keep deleting this post BUT here it goes!! 

Last year I decided to make a change in myself. I would start spending time on ME! My days used to consist of getting up early to get ready for work before the kids were even up. I would leave for work at 7am to get to work for 8:30. Work the day away and get home at 6:30. Just enough time to have about an hour and a half with the girls then sit down and watch a show on the TV and do the exact same thing the next day and day after that... I felt drained, I was miserable, didn't feel like doing anything EVER! 

One day I was scrolling my news-feed and this little boy was pointing at me. I read the post by amazing friend who was asking if I wanted to know what she does as a Beachbody coach, how she gets paid to workout and how her husband retired from his corporate job! OF COURSE I WANTED TO KNOW! Really what could it hurt to find out how they are working from home and LIVING life with their children! 

If I didn't comment on that post to find out I would probably still be working in Toronto away from my children. I would still be on the couch each night watching TV and eating junk. I would still be grumpy and miserable with myself and the life that I thought I was living. 

That post of that little boy CHANGED my life! I started working on me! I worked out late at night after the kids were in bed, instead of sitting on the couch watching tv. Started eating healthier, becoming more positive everyday. It's true what they say "Surround yourself with those that lift you higher". With so many positive people around me I became HAPPY!!! Things started to change in and all around me. I decided to leave my Toronto career that I had been doing for 10 years, I improved my health, improved my eyesight, improved my relationship with my family and found out what I was made to do!

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The Dress Doesn't Fit

I have honestly been scared to try my wedding dress on.  Thinking that I was never going to fit into it again and scared that maybe it would fit.

My husband and I got married 9 months after having our first baby girl. 9 months on 9 months off right? Nope, was not the case for me. When we first met I was around 130 pounds, during pregnancy I gained 80 pounds in not even 9 months. She was 3 weeks early and I topped the scales at 207 pounds when I had her.  That's right I said 207.

Needless to say I did Not lose all of my baby weight from our first pregnancy before we got married. (or even before our next pregnancy, which was a couple months shy of 2 years after the first pregnancy).

I haven't put this dress on since 2009...

I was going to wait until the summer to try it on again just to give myself those extra couple of months to make sure it fit.  Then we were at my moms house on the weekend and I just couldn't wait. I needed to see if THE DRESS was ever going to fit again.  So, I pulled it out of the closet and slid myself into it asking to have help to do it up, all while reminding myself that I had to wear Spanks with it on our wedding day.... and.....

Well I was BLOWN AWAY!!  Not only does it NOT FIT I can slip right out of it!!  I was more worried that it wouldn't fit because I hadn't reached those losses yet.  Totally thought it would go on but not actually do up.

So happy I ended up asking my husband "when are we getting married again?" and he jokes back "when you fit into your dress again" hahaha.

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My Girls

As I sit here today, I am so thankful.

I am blessed with 3 beautiful little girls, who I am able to now watch as they change and grow everyday.  These girls fight, bicker, kick and scream at each other like all siblings but today was much different.  Today as I was listening to them play house in their room I hear one say "I love you" and the other little one without skipping a beat replies "I love you too".  Oh my heart!  Instantly tears came to my eyes as I thought to myself, they are finally getting it, they are understanding what sibling love is.

We always tell our girls we love them.  We have always prompted them to speak to their sister and tell each other you love them.  Now today without them knowing I was there listening at the door I realize they are going to have the best relationship.

If you don't already know my youngest 2 are twins.  Everyone says twins have a special bond but I never saw it with these two.  They are polar opposite, one is relaxed the other always on the go. I didn't know when they would build the relationship that other sets of twins I see have but now I know these girls will be friends forever.

It makes my heart happy to know that all of my girls will have each other to grow up with and have that special confidant.

Absolutely Blessed!